This is the fifth audio guide of the "clarity" series – loving-kindness.
This audio guide is using some verbal tricks to counteract the mind in a grumpy state that is reacting and complaining.
The egocentric mind is easy to react because the mind is judging, evaluating and comparing, therefore accumulating opinions, conclusions and views; the mind functioning based on this is very petty, full of reactions, and all kinds of "bitterness", "dislike" and even "hatred" are formed, further isolating the mind.
Such a "disordered" mind inevitably encounters challenges in relationships, but to solve this issue is not to resort to superficial socializing activities to alleviate the isolation – the symptom, which is a form of pleasure-seeking and self-deception, but to deeply understand oneself to be free of the disorder; or else the disorder keeps "scaring" people away, creating numerous issues.
This symptom is typical of individualism and egoism, and the energy is dissipated by the excessive thought processes, people stay aloof from each other, and it is a vicious circle.
This audio guide may help or not help someone, what really matters is ending the ego, the self, via a total understanding of the mind and sheer actions to let go of those unnecessary thoughts – judgment, opinions, likes, dislikes, so the mind stays unknown.
In the unknown, there is no "dislike" or "hatred", and only such a quality of mind is full of compassion.
What are the audio guides of the clarity series for?
These audio guides are for anyone who is new to meditation and self-inquiry or anyone who would like to review the technique for a deeper understanding. The audio guides are to guide the mind to have a taste of "full attention", which is the key to understanding everything clearly.
This world has been taken over by thoughts, where all kinds of absurdities abound. The mind is trapped in thoughts, which means the mind is in concentration, which is also isolation. Full attention means that the mind is fully aware of everything without being trapped in thoughts; it should have been the normal quality of the mind, but civilization, which is a product of thoughts, has imprisoned and conditioned the mind. The mind is totally confused with its endless issues, therefore some techniques might be useful to help the isolated mind experience "full attention".
What is the relation between the audio guides and inner exploration?
Audio guides are not absolutely necessary, they might be helpful to guide the busy and inexperienced mind to come back to full attention, especially when the mind is isolated by thoughts and reactions.
Please don't be attached to these audio guides; free to use and free not to use. Full attention comes from a total understanding of living and one's diligence in observing and being aware at each moment.
Be aware of your intention behind using the audio guides; don't expect them to bring peace to you, which can be a trap. When you use the audio guides, could you just follow the audio guide, just do it without any purpose?
When the mind has a purpose, the mind is no longer free, and attachment can be easily formed.
How to use the audio guides?
People may have different reactions to Cico's voice in the audio guide, it is essential to notice the reaction to the voice. The reaction comes from the accumulated judgments, opinions, tendencies, preferences, which are all thoughts processes. Can one open the heart by being aware of the reactions and letting go of them?
Cico's first language is not English, and he may not use English in the way one expects in one's environment, can one notice the reaction to words that brings the hurdle and obstacle not only in this audio guide but also in daily life?
Having this awareness is already part of meditation.